Instruction manual
Before talking with your spouse, you need to decide what you really want. Swing is an exchange of partners in established pairs. This is not a gangbang, not an opportunity to try threesomes, namely contact with another person who is also in a serious relationship, and does not count on anything other than intimacy. In this case, both you and your spouse have sex with other people. Often at this moment strong outbreaks of jealousy occur. Are you ready to see your woman having fun with others? Fantasy and reality may not coincide in such experiments.
It has its own rules of conduct, you must familiarize yourself with them before offering something to a partner. For example, there is an open and closed swing. In the first case, the couples are in front of each other, in the second they retire in separate rooms. Further relations, issues of protection and possible consequences are also discussed.
The experiment proposal should be started carefully so as not to cause a negative reaction. For example, offer to watch a movie about swingers or thematic porn. Ask a woman how to relate to such entertainment. The dialogue is best done in a comic form, without first offering anything specific.
In a relaxed atmosphere, tell your spouse that you always wanted to see her in the arms of another person. Focus on how she felt that she was well in these fantasies. Talk about her emotions, not yours. If you start talking to yourself, then she can understand this ambiguously. Often a woman begins to look for flaws in herself, she will think that she’s tired of you, that she’s no longer interested as a sexual partner. After that, she is unlikely to agree.
A woman will go on a similar experiment only if she knows that there is no chance of losing her man. She needs to know that she is loved, that they do not want to replace her or compare with someone else. It is necessary to remove the fear that it will be unnecessary. And this can only be done by constantly repeating that it is better than she is in the world. And here sincerity is important, not flattery.
Do not push on her. First, just hint, then talk about the possibility in the distant future, and after a few weeks start a more detailed discussion of the opportunity. Sometimes a woman needs to think everything over, to realize all the nuances. Perhaps she will start looking for information on the net or in magazines. Give her this opportunity, because after that she will feel much more confident.
The first swing should be offered to people who are familiar to her. It can be good friends, old friends. Perhaps you know her old friend with whom she is on friendly terms. This option will not be so scary, since everyone knows each other. But remember that if something does not work out, then you can permanently lose these people from your circle of friends.
What to do if the spouse constantly repeats: "Do you want - change"? What makes a loving husband push his wife to adultery? And how to return harmony to married life?
Woman is cheating
Few love zealots. In the end, women simply need the attention of men - at least for purely preventive purposes. But what to do if the spouse, on the contrary, pushes you to cheat, then repeating: "Do you want to - cheat"?
It turns out that there are even more such provocateurs than pathological jealousy. Practicing psychologists explain this behavior by the syndrome of provoked infidelity.
Woman is cheating
“Oddly enough, the syndrome of provoked infidelity is observed in marriages where both spouses sincerely love each other and are by no means going to change,” says psychologist Larisa Novikova. “Usually, these are quite mature people: both partners are over 25, the men he already had an experience of a long relationship, and no one seemed to give anyone reason to think about cheating. But then one day his wife hears: "I do not mind that you cheated on me."
How can such a thought come to the head of an exemplary family man? There may be several explanations.
A man is much older than his wife and is afraid that sooner or later he will stop arranging her in the intimate sphere. To remove the growing psychological stress, he ... by chance starts a conversation that betrayal in their relationship is quite acceptable. And at the same time he is afraid that his wife will follow his advice. Gradually, he becomes a slave to his own fears.
A young man began to have problems with potency , about which he is afraid to confess to his wife, and he does not dare to go to the doctor. Often it is a banal prostatitis, but men frightened by television advertising are panicky afraid of the diagnosis of "impotent", so they try not to tell anyone about their problems. The further course of thought coincides with the logic of the previous paragraph.
- In childhood, a man suffered a psychological trauma - betrayal by close women. For example, a mother abandoned her family or spent more time with one of the other children. Having become an adult, such a person does not believe in the sincerity of relations with the female sex. And so afraid of losing the second half that he offers her to change.
Woman is cheating
- A man loves his wife, but at the same time he wants variety. Paradoxically, it is a fact: some are really excited by traitorous wives. Psychologists call this the complex of the Madonna the harlot. Its essence is that after many years of marriage, a man begins to treat his wife as a second mother. As a result, erotic attraction leaves the relationship. To preserve the marriage, the husband subconsciously seeks to make the image of his wife more carnal, mundane. How? Imagining that she cheated on him, of course.
Woman is cheating
Provocative treason syndrome has an interesting side effect. By allowing his wife to change, the man immediately relieves himself of tension. From such a psychological discharge it becomes easier for him, and potency surprisingly improves. Having noticed this, the delighted wife begins to tell her husband tales about how, when and with whom she allegedly cheated. If the spouse does not consider it necessary to play along with her husband, he himself finds a lot of evidence of faithful infidelity.
However, the attempt to relieve tension in such an intricate way only aggravates the situation: a man winds himself up more and more, because he loves his wife, and the provocation of treason is only a consequence of deep complexes and self-doubt. Scandal follows scandal. The logical consequence of this situation is usually parting.
How to break the vicious circle?
Do not take her husband’s words literally and do not change. On the contrary, to prove to him day after day that he is one and only. Try to expand your social circle, often get out together "in the light", but at the same time try to pay attention only to him.
Change your image. Try role-playing games. Advice, perhaps banal, but effective. The appearance of a wife in a bathrobe, slippers, curlers and a cucumber mask on her face can hardly excite anyone.
Arrange a scene of jealousy for her husband. In moderate doses, jealousy flatters pride. You will prove to him that you not only value him, but also consider him attractive to other women.
To say that you plan to have a bunch of children. The best insurance against treason for such a man is a promise to make him a father with many children.
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Wife's story for other normal families without complexes.Hello everyone from America! I don’t know how to write, to invent, too, so I’ll write how it will turn out, but the truth itself. If anyone is hurt by my words, then do not be offended - you don’t need to be offended by the truth. Or better not read. Everything that is written, I know firsthand. I want to share this with other families. You may not believe, I'm not going to force anyone.
My name is Tatyana Sergeevna, but where I live, a middle name is not needed. I'm talking about America. Exactly eight years ago, my husband and I moved to Arkansas from a Russian city. He was offered a highly paid job in a narrow direction. It’s brainy with me, they paid well, and in a year we managed to get our own apartment building, a garage, two cars and send our girls to a normal school. Let us describe ourselves for convenience. Now I’m 41, my figure has been kept good, my chest is real and still full, though it is slightly hanging down, the size is third, the ass is soft, fleshy and bulging in the woman’s semicircles back, hips are wide, shoulders are narrow, hands almost did not lose elasticity, the tummy is very small. For Russian, I look very good, compared with the Americans and even more so for the whole thousand points. My face is beautiful with graceful features: a thin nose, expressive lips, elastic cheeks, bright eyes.
Why am I writing? I am writing to tell the truth on the topic of interracial sex and how he touched our Russian family. My husband and I met when he was already working, and I was graduating from college. Then they quickly got married, I gave birth to a girl, then again. At first, we had a tight relationship with sex, children mostly occupied all births. When I turned 30, I felt that I just wanted to fuck like a bitch with estrus. My body so demanded to feel like a full woman. My husband gave it to me, as it seemed to me then. He could have sex with me for an hour with two breaks for a smoke break. Then I went to the bathroom there, helping myself with my hand, tubes of cream and a shower.
Three years later, we moved to America. At first I was at a loss. Feelings can not be described, they need to survive. The care was full of mouth, a green card, documents for children, a search for housing, paper for a house. About a year the whole thing went to this, then life began to improve and get into the usual state so that my husband worked, I stayed at home, drove the children to school, picked them up, cooked them. And on Saturday I was waiting for a married legal holiday for my little fluffy, but he did not satisfy me. According to physical data, my husband is strong, he always loved sex, I inflicted it tightly around my thumb and middle finger, 19 centimeters long and thick in width. He was proud, he had something to be proud of. And he loved me and wanted me as a woman. I didn’t change, I know that and every wife knows. If there is suspicion, then he goes to the left, if he does not give a reason, then he is faithful. We had a happy strong family with a beautiful faithful wife, a caring, responsible husband and two children.
In general, I write this as a white married whore for black. In America they say If taste black newer come back - if you tried black, there is no turning back. I tried, it’s true - there is already no way back to white or to my husband. For once, all bridges are burned to the ground. Everyone knows that a lot of porn is released, where they show a husband who voluntarily puts his luxurious white wife under one or more blacks, and he only watches it. This is not fiction. It's true. I don’t know how this happens in Europe, but in America it is so in most families. This is the norm of modern sexual relations. When my husband and I first began to find out about interracial sex on the Internet, we were stunned! Thousands of sites are packed with white husbands who ask blacks to rip their wives (usually blondes) into all the cracks! In reality, it happens like this: a husband negotiates correspondence with blacks, they come at the agreed time and fuck his wife right at home in the matrimonial bed wherever they want, in all holes. Even if the husband is against it, they do not ask him because he is a white sucker - a sissy boy, and they are a group of healthy black brothers - bros - with their arms up and in tattoos. Husbands shut up and shoot everything on camera. They have nothing left to do. I myself personally know live with hundreds of such families and a couple of hundred by constant correspondence, in which everything happens. Many blacks, whom African Americans need to be called on TV, work as black stallions. They are fuckers of white married wives. They usually do this not for free, they are paid money. White husbands every day work on normal jobs, think about taxes, pay all family expenses, take care of children, pay a loan for a house, get tired in the evenings, and from entertainment you can only sip beer and grill a barbecue. Negroes, on the contrary, look after themselves, go to gyms, hang out at each other’s apartments for all days, play basketball, ride wheelbarrows, compose their rap, smoke. Then the white husbands pay them money to watch their wives be turned into a white trash ho by a group - this translates as a dirty white whore.
If you do not live in America, maybe you are surprised and do not believe. But almost all or all seemingly normal American families live that way. And whoever is a visitor is also necessarily drawn into such a life sooner or later. No one is to blame for this. It’s just that whites live in the neighborhood with blacks all their lives, watch films where blacks are cool and arrogant - even in family comedies they show this. White husbands get tired of responsible work and can’t cope with conjugal duty, and Black has the genes in order to have time to plant more white meat on his big black penis.
By the way, blacks really have always more members than whites. Many do not believe it, but I have considerable experience and I know for sure. When I tried with black, I realized that 19 centimeters of my husband is not a member, it is a children's toy, unworthy of a normal healthy woman. This is a shame, I feel sorry for the men, but the women lie when they say that size does not matter. Or they never tried a real big black dick. Black also has the ability to have sex. They sing well, dance, ugly on their faces, but they fuck without a break, and if they finish, they don’t fall! It’s not in vain that husbands pay, because they will always have the woman finish 10 times and fill the matrimonial bed under the black with her juice. 10 times you can end only with a black man and with no one else. They have huge members and they never get tired. Age is also unimportant, my husband put me under the old 50 years and the young 20 years, but they didn’t stop the same way, they just fucked me. From an early age, they do not waste time in vain, but already begin to shuffle all white neighbors older than themselves and peers in the area. If they finish, then again immediately push, and constantly masturbate with his hands without a break. Not a single white can and is blown away. I know this from our friends. There, some wives at first had a lot of experience with white lovers and Mexicans, but when they tried black, they realized what was happening.
With white husbands sorted out, they all want to live with his wife, who is a dirty white whore. Blacks almost never marry whites, even if they are very beautiful. They constantly find themselves fat black women, they give birth to many children, prepare dinners, and husbands at this time constantly visit white women and feed them with their seed. They have no need to choose one when each white is ready to wave black. Why are we doing this in America? It is time to talk about us, voluntary white traitors, white meat, white whores for black, white knots. Again, no one is to blame, except for nature. Women need stability for their children. White husbands give it. When there is stability, women need good sex. Only black can give it. They always behave impudently, constantly slap on the ass, they are ultimately luxurious with their trained bodies, like tribal horses and therefore we easily surrender to them completely, waving into any hole they want. Usually this is the back. This is the biggest chic for black - stretch and pour into the white back of a married woman. Any white woman always flows from the sight of black. You see, black instinct is programmed in genes - to tear every white one. And for white women, two instincts are programmed: to find a wealthy husband for children, and then surrender to black.
Queen Of Spades Tatyana
It just so happened that both of our grandmothers live far from us. In addition, one cannot leave the household for a long time, and the other has big health problems - you can’t count on help. Both grandmothers are tormented by conscience, but we, as we can, convince them that they are not to blame for anything.
When we began to plan the child, we understood that we had to rely only on ourselves. Since I was the initiator of the idea of \u200b\u200bbecoming parents, I certainly promised that I would help as much as possible with the child.
First months
We went to courses together and prepared to give birth together. But everything went wrong - instead of giving birth it was cesarean, and the child was in intensive care ... But this is another story.
When, finally, almost two weeks after the birth of our daughter, we arrived with a full-fledged family home, those very sleepless nights began.
In fact, they were relatively sleepless - it was an intermittent dream. We at the hospital realized that the only opportunity for mom to get enough sleep is to sleep with her child.
My daughter woke up in the middle of the night - it was necessary to change diapers. Since the child is exhausting her mother around the clock, I decided that at least at night she should rest.
Therefore, I took on the duty of night changing diapers. As soon as I heard the baby crying at night, pulled her out from under his wife’s chest, undressed, changed her diaper, dressed, put her under his chest again and went to bed.
Once, I remember, was so sleepy that I almost dropped my daughter. Fortunately, I caught, and it was already over the bed.
As a result, by the number of hours, I seemed to sleep well, but an intermittent dream made itself felt. I really wanted to sleep at work. So, by the way, I got addicted to morning coffee.
Early years
My daughter grew up, frequent awakenings gave way to strange night vigils, when the baby woke up at three in the morning and simply did not want to fall asleep. She also did not give in to motion sickness at such moments, and I took her to another room, where I entertained in every way, until she began to show signs of sleep.
In the evening I laid my daughter down, first of all, first of all - my wife replaced me if the baby did not want to fall asleep on my hands. It happened that they exchanged each other two or three times, until the child finally began to sniff sweetly. My daughter began to fall asleep much worse after weaning.
The sleep normalized completely after the age of three. But I still go to bed. It is often convenient for me to go to bed with my daughter to get up early in the morning to work.
If there is an urgent matter in the evening, I ask my wife to bed.
Why is it all
It so happened that fate brought me together by one guy whose daughter was born at about the same time as mine. There was a common topic of conversation. In one of the conversations, my new acquaintance cheerfully told me that he was sleeping in another room now. Because otherwise, they say, it’s impossible to get enough sleep: the daughter yells, the wife changes her diapers, then feeds her.
Seriously? I asked. - Does the wife get enough sleep?
No, ”he said a little,“ but I need to go to work. ”
Do you think it does not work when the whole day wears a small one at home, on the street, in a store?
Well, that’s completely different ...
I just waved a hand.
He only imagined how much later he would have claims against his wife, that she, for example, did not want to make love. Where will she get the desire if squeezed like a lemon? And what about her husband, how will she look if she left her face to face with problems? Is this child just her?
Men, don’t.
